{"id":340,"date":"2023-05-18T22:10:49","date_gmt":"2023-05-18T22:10:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/devu05.testdevlink.net\/inner\/?p=340"},"modified":"2023-05-19T20:38:27","modified_gmt":"2023-05-19T20:38:27","slug":"set-healthy-boundaries","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/devu05.testdevlink.net\/inner\/2023\/05\/18\/set-healthy-boundaries\/","title":{"rendered":"Set Healthy Boundaries"},"content":{"rendered":"[vc_row type=&#8221;full_width_background&#8221; full_screen_row_position=&#8221;middle&#8221; column_margin=&#8221;default&#8221; equal_height=&#8221;yes&#8221; content_placement=&#8221;middle&#8221; column_direction=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction_tablet=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction_phone=&#8221;default&#8221; scene_position=&#8221;center&#8221; top_padding=&#8221;30&#8243; constrain_group_1=&#8221;yes&#8221; bottom_padding=&#8221;30&#8243; text_color=&#8221;dark&#8221; text_align=&#8221;center&#8221; row_border_radius=&#8221;none&#8221; row_border_radius_applies=&#8221;bg&#8221; overflow=&#8221;visible&#8221; advanced_gradient_angle=&#8221;0&#8243; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; gradient_direction=&#8221;left_to_right&#8221; shape_divider_position=&#8221;bottom&#8221; bg_image_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; gradient_type=&#8221;default&#8221; shape_type=&#8221;&#8221;][vc_column column_padding=&#8221;padding-3-percent&#8221; column_padding_tablet=&#8221;inherit&#8221; column_padding_phone=&#8221;inherit&#8221; column_padding_position=&#8221;all&#8221; column_element_spacing=&#8221;default&#8221; background_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; background_hover_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; column_shadow=&#8221;small_depth&#8221; column_border_radius=&#8221;none&#8221; column_link_target=&#8221;_self&#8221; column_position=&#8221;default&#8221; boxed=&#8221;true&#8221; advanced_gradient_angle=&#8221;0&#8243; gradient_direction=&#8221;left_to_right&#8221; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/1&#8243; tablet_width_inherit=&#8221;default&#8221; tablet_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; phone_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; animation_type=&#8221;default&#8221; bg_image_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; border_type=&#8221;simple&#8221; column_border_width=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; gradient_type=&#8221;default&#8221;][vc_column_text]\n<h2>Life in balance<\/h2>\n<p>I once heard someone use the term \u201csocial obligation\u201d. It made me think deep and I became aware of how people actually live their lives out of obligations. It was mind-blowing to me to discover that people feel like putting yourself first is selfish and that you have to live up to someone else\u2019s or society\u2019s standards. Where is the free will in that? Why did you come to this physical experience to sacrifice yourself and let others dictate or organize your life? How will you ever be able to create abundance, freedom and joy in your life if you give your power away? What is the purpose of your life if you operate on autopilot as a robot robbing yourself from the chance to decide for yourself? Next time you notice that the words should, must, tolerating, obligations etc\u2026 are describing your state, remember these questions and make a conscious effort to stand in your powers. Do not be afraid to lose people over this. If they don\u2019t match your new vibration they will fall away but guess what, they aren\u2019t that important for your life if they don\u2019t understand that you have a life to live and can\u2019t cheer for you on your transformational journey. It is so much more empowering when you live your life according to YOU. After all, we all came to this physical experience to create our own reality but some people accept others to take over their lives while others take ownership of their own lives. It will serve you way more if you do things for yourself because when you know who you are and have a strong personality then people will look at you differently than before and treat you according to who YOU are and not based on what they want you to be. But for that, you need to know your values and own yourself and this takes courage and a deep investment in your Soul\u2019s well being. Don\u2019t wait for others to approve of you or validate you. You are already worthy, valid, deserving just because you exist. Do not underestimate your life. It takes effort for a Soul to get into a physical body and you were able to manifest a physical existence. That\u2019s huge!<br \/>\nA lot of times we tend to underestimate ourselves while other times we can overestimate our abilities. If we have a flexible mindset and approach things realistically while not being afraid of big accomplishments we can really thrive in life. It&#8217;s the conditioning that we have to be conscious of in order to make things work for ourselves.<br \/>\nSome people are taught not to dream big because achieving big things in life is only available for certain people, so they go on with life feeling unworthy of true success. This is always a reason for being afraid of failure or being afraid of losing success but that is a narrow mindset. If you recognize yourself within these lines it&#8217;ll be beneficial if you understand that no one is special. We&#8217;ve all been given equal amount of resources but we only utilize what our mind is capable of which is due to its capacity through the beliefs we hold. You must free yourself from limitations and this is how you allow for flow into your life. Use your desires as a drive to retain success but being too attached to it is what can cause a fear of losing success. What you want to strive for is being resourceful &amp; efficient whether with a group or on your own. Once you acquire this trait and make it your focus point eventually it&#8217;ll become a part of your personality and it will be easier to navigate your life where you can let go of limitations and fears. It is totally normal to have doubts when we enter the unknown but as long as you stay focused on what you want to achieve and\/or how you want to feel during the process you can be reassured that things will unfold in front of you as long as you keep taking physical actions.<br \/>\nNow, when someone overestimates themselves they really have to examine the ego and learn to look at things realistically. The ego isn&#8217;t the bad guy here, we all need ego to a certain level to keep ourselves safe (it has you act accordingly when it senses danger) but what\u2019s important is knowing your limits and having healthy, realistic boundaries. Knowing your capabilities\/values is what can help in initiating to take actions within your abilities. Get to know yourself first and accept if your soul isn&#8217;t ready to embark on a huge project just yet. Making peace with what you can currently offer and being the best at it will eventually broaden your potentialities.<\/p>\n<p>I truly hope that this article has helped you gain some confidence and faith in yourself and inspired you to start taking action towards a freer future. If you want to liberate yourself from limitations and blockages I\u2019d recommend a Soul Realignment session where we go deep into your personal story and energetically clear those blocks from your life while we come up with actionable solutions that you can do differently in your life so you can live in harmony and fulfilled.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row type=&#8221;full_width_background&#8221; full_screen_row_position=&#8221;middle&#8221; column_margin=&#8221;default&#8221; equal_height=&#8221;yes&#8221; content_placement=&#8221;middle&#8221; column_direction=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction_tablet=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction_phone=&#8221;default&#8221; scene_position=&#8221;center&#8221; top_padding=&#8221;30&#8243; constrain_group_1=&#8221;yes&#8221; bottom_padding=&#8221;30&#8243; text_color=&#8221;dark&#8221; text_align=&#8221;center&#8221; row_border_radius=&#8221;none&#8221; row_border_radius_applies=&#8221;bg&#8221; overflow=&#8221;visible&#8221; advanced_gradient_angle=&#8221;0&#8243; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; gradient_direction=&#8221;left_to_right&#8221; shape_divider_position=&#8221;bottom&#8221; bg_image_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; gradient_type=&#8221;default&#8221; shape_type=&#8221;&#8221;][vc_column column_padding=&#8221;padding-3-percent&#8221; column_padding_tablet=&#8221;inherit&#8221; column_padding_phone=&#8221;inherit&#8221; column_padding_position=&#8221;all&#8221; column_element_spacing=&#8221;default&#8221;&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":341,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-340","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-articles"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/devu05.testdevlink.net\/inner\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/340","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/devu05.testdevlink.net\/inner\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/devu05.testdevlink.net\/inner\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/devu05.testdevlink.net\/inner\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/devu05.testdevlink.net\/inner\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=340"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/devu05.testdevlink.net\/inner\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/340\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":385,"href":"https:\/\/devu05.testdevlink.net\/inner\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/340\/revisions\/385"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/devu05.testdevlink.net\/inner\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/341"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/devu05.testdevlink.net\/inner\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=340"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/devu05.testdevlink.net\/inner\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=340"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/devu05.testdevlink.net\/inner\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=340"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}